Why can't we talk about suicide?

Despite reductions in cardiovascular, cancer, and infectious disease, comparable public-health improvements in mental health have not materialized. Global dissemination of trainings and programs have not translated into reduced burden of mental health conditions. Detection in primary care remains uncommon, sustained delivery of psychological services is difficult, few governments prioritize mental health, and reliable data are scarce. A largely unexamined factor is how we talk about suicide. How suicide is discussed shapes whether primary care workers feel able to engage, what organizations incorporate psychosocial programs, and whether mental-health data are accurate and representative. Drawing on three decades of work, this Perspectives piece argues that protocol-heavy, medico-legal framing, such as rigid confidentiality scripts, liability fears, and technical checklists, pulls attention away from the feelings involved in sitting with a person who expresses suicidal thoughts. Logistical, legal, and clinical pushback reflects fear and powerlessness in the face of suicidality. I advocate for making deliberate space for emotional processing by inviting helpers to notice their own reactions, collaborating with people with lived experience of suicidality, and learning from those bereaved by suicide. An empathy-guided approach to suicide can strengthen trainings, program adoption, data quality, and, most importantly, ensure people in distress are not left alone.

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Author Brandon A. Kohrt Psychiatry, Child & Family Mental Health & Community Psychia ...